I just found your amazing site, and just red this amazing comic. I'm normally not a fan of gender swap stuff, but your art is so hypnotising that I couldn't stop reading.
Don't get me wrong the story is also great, but if it was drawn by a less gifted artist I would skip this site after seeing first transformation. Your art is exceptional. It looks simple at the first glance but it excellently carries all the emotions. It has everything that is necessary to transfer story and feelings without any unnecessary additives that would disturb the communication between you and your viewer. You're really gifted artist and I envy you your talent and this comment is already to long so I'll stop now.
I think I've worked out the insignia. Evidently Torrin is a senior officer, so figuring the three bars and the three diamonds, that would make him an O-6 (equivalent to the rank of a full colonel) which would make his living in personal quarters, being able to have an assistant, plus his having certain 'leeway' with Mistress plausible. RHIP (rank Has It's Privileges)...